Before I met my husband I had dated quite a few members and some relationships were quite serious but I never felt right about it. It's a great idea to know where you stand so that you'll be prepared when this comes up in conversation. Like it was mentioned above, see how she deals some of the issues now and if she can't handle it, it might be better to find someone else. But, on the other hand, maybe being a doctor is so fulfilling that they can cope better with the lack of other activities. But thinking of the children I could not live with myself to do that. The first few months were wonderful we saw each other every few weeks, we live about miles from each other. I believe rules are to be obeyed. You've stated that she had numerous guys break up with her after she took sex off the table. I clearly stated twice that I severed things with the girl. Let her go right now then.
I feel like I belong to a sisterhood who understand my life. He actually wanted them to be active in a religion and thought this was a good idea. He is always going to be the vulnerable, tired, needy one in our relationship and I don't feel like a doormat for being the one who provides that support and love to him anymore. My husband says he will not compromise and that his physical activity is his priority.